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Thoughts about weddings, marriage, and more
Let’s stop calling it “Intermarriage.”
When we see a happy couple together in love, it gives us hope that there can be a brighter tomorrow. So why do we typically label a couple from disparate religious upbringings as “interfaith” and their marriage as “intermarriage”?
Planning your Ceremony Set Up for your Wedding Day
You’ve planned out your bridal party, the processional, your music, but how should you set up the space where your wedding ceremony will take place? Look no further!
Jewish (or Jew-ish!) Wedding Music for your Procession or Recession
Need some ideas of how to make a great musical entrance for your upcoming wedding? We got you covered with some great processional and recessional songs!
It’s not who you are, it’s what you do that counts in a relationship
Recently, I read an article at inverse.com that echoes the same sentiments I have offered to couples when I do my Prepare-Enrich work with them. That is to say, that even though a couple might have come together because of common circumstances (same college, same workplace, same hobbies…), that is not what makes for a long-lasting and committed relationship.
Veils and First Looks
Older traditions are becoming more popular. What’s up with the “First Look” and the veil at a wedding? Let’s find out.
Couple Spotlight: The “theatrical, intimate, and edgy” wedding of Rachael and Michael
A dramatic couple without the drama. Read (and see) about the unique venue and happily married people!
A Vacation is not a Prescription for Happiness
Adam Sandler has something to teach couples about Idyllic Distortion with some hard truths.
Cantor Erik Contzius wins The Knot’s 2019 Best of Weddings recognition
Thanks to the many couples I’ve worked with (and thank you! It was a pleasure working with you all!), I’m happy to report that I’ve received The Knot’s 2019 “Best of Weddings” recognition.
Couple Spotlight: An Afternoon of Love in the Hudson Valley
I first heard from Jessica and Conor over a year ago. They were (and are!) a very enthusiastic couple, and right off the bat, I knew I was going to enjoy working with them. To begin, their relationship is one beyond simple partnership. They have a dynamism that’s full of energy. They are competitive—especially Jessica! They both complement each other and at the same time feed off of each other’s zeal for life and adventure.
Writing Your Own Wedding Vows
Before you say, “I do,” have a list of things to say “I do” to! Let’s get creative and write your own vows.
Rabbi or Cantor—what’s the difference?
Couples looking for a Jewish wedding officiant are most likely looking for a rabbi. But ordained Cantors are just as capable of working with wedding couples and marrying them—plus, we sing! So what exactly the difference between a Rabbi and a Cantor?
Jewish. Interfaith.
Secular. Same-Sex.
Meaningful. Personal.